Practical Skills For Your Marriage
Parenting:
- Mothering and Fathering: How to harmonize these complementary and distinct roles.
- Discipline: Developing your family's system.
- Needs: Prioritizing the needs of each member of the family.
- Sleep: The role of sleep in a Christian home.
Security/safety/conversion:
- Security: How we constantly look to each other to feel secure.
- Safety: How to become the safe friend whom my spouse desires & needs.
- Conversion: How to facilitate conversion, change, and growth in myself and my spouse.
Intimacy:
- Satisfaction: Understanding your spouse's needs and wants.
- Gratitude: Learning to be happy with what you have before seeking growth.
- Receptivity: Sharing body and soul vulnerably, honestly, and completely.
- Unity: Strategies for moving towards one another when your visions do not match.
Communication:
- Forgiveness: As Christians we know it's necessary. How exactly to go about forgiving well.
- Family Culture: How to establish a joyful family culture and a plan for growth.
- Help: Asking for help and allowing my spouse to help.
- Trying again: How to bring up a topic I’m convinced will go poorly (because it always has).
- Anger: How to effectively diffuse anger and conflict and redirect the passion towards unity.
Sharing hopes, dreams, disappointments, and fears:
- Needs & desires: How to effectively communicate these without accidentally being threatening.
- Hopes & fears: How to make it easy for my spouse to understand what I'm trying to share.
- Mistakes: Avoiding blame, sharing the disappointment, avoiding resentment, & trying again.
Finances:
- Roles: How to determine what roles you'll each play (who pays the bills, who earns income).
- Debt & Budgeting: Giving every dollar a job.
- Planning: Coming together and finding a new way (saving/spending/organizing) which you both prefer.
Sharing your faith:
- Prayer: There are many ways to pray. How to find one that might work for you to share.
- Leadership: St. Ignatious on discernment of spirits.
- Intercession: Effectively calling down God's blessing on your wife or husband.
- Virtue: Choosing to become attractive when we want our spouse to be attracted.
Your own topic
- Couples often have a specific area which they desire growth in.